You Have to See it to BE IT: Reframing Your Mind for Success
I know me and just about every other Life coach, spiritual leader and blogger all around the world have just about ran the urgency of setting goals for the New Year into the ground. I did a Google search on “goal setting” and found over 3.2 million entries on the topic. I myself have written many articles about planning, and setting goals to I am almost blue in the face, but I love the stuff. It’s how I function. I love developing new ideas, creating strategic ways to implement those ideas, learning new things, and just planning for the future. But there was something that dawned on me about goal setting. That we can continue to teach people about how important is to set goals, we can give them theory, we can even give them the theology about the subject but if the person in our case, if we women can not get it in our heads that we can actually make some of this stuff happened were at a major loss. If we can not perceive the very best for ourselves no strategic plan, no SMART goal and no life coach is going to be able to help move us into DESTINY!
We have to have the right FRAME of mind. We have to see things that are deemed impossible, negative, and unsolvable in another way. We have to be able to challenge the negative as an opportunity, the unsolvable, with a doable and the impossible with the possible. If we are going to be what God has called us to be we have to create an environment of thoughts that propels the DREAM. There are going to be some challenges. With those challenges I have decided that I am going to have to get aggressive. I am going to learn how to step back see those things that I once viewed as a setback as a setup for something great. We are going to have put on some alternative lenses and look at things in another way.
How can we do this?
#1 Identify It!
I heard a televangelist say, you can not conquer what you won’t confront.
#2 By seeing everything as a means of empowerment.
Tell yourself this is a just an opportunity for you to come up with some idea that is going to make you brilliant for all those you share it with. Use the energy to create a plan of action to change the challenge!
Moving into your Destiny in 2010 will require some planning but it is more about who you believe yourself to be. When you can see yourself accomplishing the plans of God, you can then implement the vision with no limits!
Nicely said. I have this on my bedroom door, “God destroys the wall of impossibility.” Amen!